Message From Vinay - Going into Transplant

Good news everyone. I found a match. It is not a perfect match but it is a 9/10 match. The donor is extremely committed. His commitment is so strong that he was willing to pre-pone his stem cell donation to fit my doctor's recommendations. I can't express how much this means to me. In the past I wrote about how one of the potential donors became "unavailable" due to a lack of family support. This is not the case here. You, as volunteers and activists, deserve the credit in the change in our community's mentality and their conviction to be a COMMITTED DONOR.

Tomorrow morning I will begin my journey into the transplant process. I will be admitted and have several procedures done, including placement of 2 Hickman catheters. The transplant will be a long and arduous process but your support and well wishes will get me through these difficult times. I love reading all the "show of support" comments and it really brightens my spirits.

Many of you stay connected to me through this wonderful website. Many of you I know and many of you I have heard of through my family and friends. I will do my very best to keep you up to date on my progress. And even if I am unable to write, I will have Rashmi relay my sentiments. I hope to have new updates at least a few times a week.

Team Vinay should be proud of all it has accomplished. In the short few months that you all have been active, we have registered over 23,000 South Asians. This is clearly over a 20% increase to the existing number of S. Asians on the registry. And as you may know a few of the marrow registrants through Team Vinay drives have already been contacted as being potential donors for others in our community. Through your tireless efforts we have also achieved a few more significant goals. Team Vinay, working along with NMDP, is responsible for implementing a protocol for culturally competent callbacks for potential S. Asian donors. Another wonderful outcome is the creation of a S. Asian specific website that will serve as a sustainable informational and educational tool for our community for the years to come. The content of the website is growing and will include input from key Team Vinay members - it should be up and running next month!

This past week has been amazing. I have enjoyed my short yet fulfilling week at home, spending time with Rashmi and other family and friends. We watched Rush Hour 3, had a BBQ and played dominoes. Thank you all again for your unwavering support and well wishes. Much love to you all; Vinay.

Dear Vinay and

Dear Vinay and Rashmi,
Oh..my god! We couldn't wait for this day....tears are coming from my eyes...:)

Great work Team Vinay....and good luck Vinay with all the transplant procedures. We will see you and Rashmi happy. Let us all continue to work with NMDP...to support other patients..

Love
Sowmya

Great News

This is great news. You really deserve it. Because of you many more patients are going to find a donor. Our prayers are with you.
Mukesh & Monica Patel

CONGRATULATIONS

on the marvellous good news. We are sure you will come through the transplant procedure. Our thoughts are with you. GOOD LUCK, Kala Iyer and Grandma

Amazing news and Congratulations

Vinay and Rashmi, its great to hear the news of a match and a committed donor. I'm extremely proud of you both in your drive and motivation to make this personal drive into a national and even international movement. I am also extremely humbled by the effect and impact it has had on literally thousands of lives. I hope the fervour and inspiration you guys gave to the movement will continue and hopefully save more lives. There is a saying in the Gita: "As is the faith of a man, so is he". Both of you have shown what sort of faith and strength you possess and in turn shown what kind of people you are. Once again, congratulations and take care.
- Mukunda Raghavan

YAY!

Vinay and Rashmi,

Thanks for sharing the great news!! I'm thinking of you and wishing you a smooth and totally successful transplant process! You both continue to be an inspiration to our community and beyond.

Neha :)

Dear Vinay and Rashmi, It is

Dear Vinay and Rashmi,
It is really a wonderful news that you have found a donor. You have been in our prayers everyday since the day we found about your hospitalization. You do not know us but we certainly know who you are. Your (Vinay)parents very good friends Nagaraj and Krishna Kumari are also our very good friends. Rashmi (some one your parents know and who attended your wedding) are also good friends of ours.
We have registered to be donors. If a call comes we will leave everything and just go and help the person in need.
I do not want to take up your time very much. Let the Blessings of the Almighty be with you all the time. We wish you all the best.
Sreedharani Nandagopal

Good Luck!

Hi Vinay,
We wish you the best for your transplant. Our thoughts and prayers are for your speedy recovery.
Regards,
Remya & Pradeep

Hi vinnie and Rashmi Great

Hi vinnie and Rashmi
Great news.......Our prayers are with you for smooth transplant and speedy recovery. God bless you and the Donor.
Jayanthi and Kannan

Great News!

I knew it was just a matter of time! Good Luck with your transplant~ All the positive energy and effort has paid off.

Keep Smiling, the both of you.

Congratulations! I dont

Congratulations! I dont think this is an appropriate word for something so huge....yet, this day has come and please know and believe as you have all this time that things will go well, and soon you will be back with Rashmi attending the parties and clicking pictures just like old times!

You, your family, doctors and everyone are in our prayers!

CONGRATULATIONS!!! I'm soooo

CONGRATULATIONS!!! I'm soooo happy for you!! I knew you would find one =)
Good luck with the donor process!

Take care,
Samantha, Sriram, Champa auntie and Balu uncle

Awesome!

Vinay,

I am so glad to hear about this! Congratulations! Where there is a will, there is always a way! Let's kick some ass now!

Good luck!

Dear Vinay and Rashmi,

Yeah!!! We've been checking your website and praying for this day! Our prayers and thoughts are with you both, Vinay and Rashmi, and with your wonderful donor. You both have shown such amazing courage and strength throughout this whole process and enabled our entire community to strengthen also.

God bless you both. God bless the anonymous donor.
May your recovery be strong, swift and complete! We will be thinking of you all.

Priya, Divya, Krishna, Vani aunty and Janardhan Uncle
Boston

Congratulations!

Congratulations Vinay, Rashmi, and your families!!! This is such FANTASTIC news. We will be looking forward to the updates and are so so so so happy for all of you!

Best wishes.

Mala and Samay

Congrats!!

Congratulations Vinay!

You, along with your family and friends, basically created a whole movement...you changed our community in a major and positive way. For that, you have my sincere gratitude...thank you.

I am but a stranger, but felt so personally happy to read your note this morning. Perhaps one day I will have the good fortune to meet you and Rashmi somewhere fun.

Best of luck with the transplant process. Take care of you :)

My prayers are with you

Hi Vinay and Rashmi

You cant imagine how glad I am to see this news. I got myself registered too. I pray everything works out well for you guys.
By the way its a wonderful thing you guys have done even at the time of crisis by starting the bone marrow drive.

With Love and Prayers
Sujatha Palani

there aren't many words that

there aren't many words that can express a deep sense of relief, gratitude, and love for people who give back to a community without seeking much fanfare. there also not many words to express the strength, beauty, and unwavering faith you and rashmi have had through out this process. i know that everything will go well. i will be thinking about you all over the next few weeks as this begins.

Love from Chicago

Vinny!

I feel so fortunate to start my morning with tears of joy for such wonderful news. You and all of Team Vinay have turned an ugly disease into a beautiful opportunity to make an enormous difference in the world. I am so happy and proud for you. The Sheldons will be looking forward to hearing about your fast and smooth recovery, your going back to work to achieve your dream of being an orthopod, and your long and blissful life with Rashmi. You and your donor will be on our minds. Good luck to you both.

love,
Sarah

Rock'on Brotha!!

Sangeetha and I are incredibly happy to hear this bit of GREAT news. You, Rashmi and your family have been constantly in our thoughts and prayers. We'll surely connect soon. Much love to you man ... this is awesome!!!! Woooohooooo!

Congrats

This is such a aussom news!!!! I have been following your website for a long time. Everyday I wished to read a message from you that 'yes I found a donar' and finally its there.
May everything goes fine with your transplant and you live a healthy life with Rashmi.

WOOHOO!

I wanted to be the ONE!
I'm proud of you Vinay, for sticking through whatever the rest of us
will never know you experienced, and for having FAITH.
And thank you for how you pulled our community to raise up.
You are a superhero!

keep the chin up!

hey vinay and rashmi,

congratulations! things will work out, keep the faith!

abhijeet

Hi Vinay and Rashmi, I was

Hi Vinay and Rashmi,
I was very happy to hear the news. God will be with you in every step of your way. Stay strong...and you will get thru this ......it is a passing cloud. Wishing u goodluck in everything.
-Luv Vishali

God's gr8. Ur family's tireless efforts paid.

Hi Vinay,
This is Premalatha. I met aunty n uncle few weeks ago at the NMDP drive at Komala Vilas, Sunnyvale, when I came in to get myself registered. I saw your dad talking to people asking them to register. It was so moving, that I decided to do my bit of vounteering. Ever since, I have been praying for you every single day.
You are so lucky to have such a good family backing you ... I can see how relieved and happy uncle, aunty and Rashmi should be. I am so very happy for you. Your case has created such a big awakening in the community. Your family left no stone unturned to help you out of this ordeal. They drew support from all walks of the society. Special mention should be made about all those who contributed to the noble cause.
My special words of praise for the donor who deserves all appreciation for having convinced his family as well, which is not a very easy thing either. Many can pray, some can pay, but when it comes to delivering only the tough get going. That way, he deserves all appalause.
May God be with you all, and also with those waiting for a donor.
It is going to be all good things here on for you and your folks. Wishing you all the very best and Good luck.
Regards,
Prema.

so happy for you

dear vinay, it was great to read your update today. i've been following your updates and think about you and pray for you. i really hope everything goes well for you in transplant, and to your donor, may you also be healthy and happy.

YESSS!!!!

Vin,

I'm SOOOOOO happy for you man! So happy! I hope all goes well with the procedure. I wanted to let you know we're all still thinking of you here in the bay. Good luck man!

Take Care,
Ken

Our prayers are with you both

Dear Vini and Rashmi,
We are very glad that you have found a match and how wonderful the donor should be feeling. Vini, I have been to several drives with your mom and dad and have personally felt their anxiety and love for you. You are our son too and God will be with you throughout this ardeal of yours. You will come out very healthy soon. Rashmi, you are a beautiful young lady both at heart and mind and i admire you for your strength. There is only one way right now and that is road to happiness. God be with you. With lots of love and hugs to both of you.
uma aunty and viswesh uncle.

Thanks

Vinay & Rashmi,

Thanks for sharing this great news with all of us! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the donor. You both continue to be an inspiration to us all.

Sincerely,

Kannan Uncle, Jayanthi Auntie, Sujit, Sumant

Great News!

Dear Vinay and Rashmi,

I am so happy for you. This is the news everyone has been waiting to hear. God bless your donor and you, as you start the process. This is the beginning of renewed health and happiness for you. Vinay, you have become the stalwart son and Rashmi has become the darling daughter - of all Bhaarath maathas.
We all love you both and thank you for awakening the spirit of our communtiy.
You are a winner and will come out of this victorious.

Nacha

congratulations vinay &

congratulations vinay & rashmi. we wish you speedy recovsry. you are in our prayers. love vijaya auntie & ramarao uncle.

Its amazing what can move mountains

You don't know us, but through your story we had a chance to volunteer at the PanIIT Drive here in Santa Clara,Ca and a chance to meet those who knew you. I met your mother and father and can just imagine what they must have felt like when they heard the news.

There is a Ribbon in my car that I had ordered for the other volunteers for the 2-day drive, and today a colleague who got a ride saw it and asked me if you had found a match yet, and I had no answer. Its amazing what can move mountains Vinay and Rashmi, a story, a call for help... and the chain reaction of people coming together.

I know the road ahead is long and arduous, but may the fruits of the obstacle you've just conquered get you through each day with positive results and a safe road to recovery.

Thanks for giving us perspective, a goal to come together and renew our awareness as a community.
~V & K.

Congratulations!

Dear Vinay and Rashmi,

I am so happy at this development. Vinay, I have never met you but I know your parents. Like you, I grew up in Fremont, went to Cal and am now a physician. It's been truly heartening to watch the response of our community. My friends and I have been so moved by your story and your courage. My brother has been organizing bone marrow drives and the rest of my family have been recruiting people to register. You and Team Vinay have managed to mobilize people for a cause that was previously largely ignored by our community.
Best wishes for your treatment. I hope to meet you in person during one of your future visits back home to Fremont!
Lakshmi

YES!

That's what I'm talkin' bout Veece! Man, I'm so happy (to quote Ravi), "I'm tingling". Now I'm _really_ ready to do battle with you in Wii tennis.

Seriously though man, you've done more to rally this community than you realize. Rach and I are praying for a speedy recovery for you, and we're looking forward to seeing you soon.

Congratulations!

I'm so happy for you and Rashmi! Praying for you to get through this, stay strong!

Our Prayers are with You!

Vinay and Rashmi,

We don't know you but I have been visiting your website for months to see that there would be a miracle for you and its here. God will guide you through this ordeal and we only hope that you regain your strength to move forward and become a wonderful doctor as this world needs people like you and Rashmi.

God bless and we will keep praying for you both.

Regina, Sunil Sonia and Simren Gupta
Sunnyvale

Congratulations!!!

Congratulations Vinay & Rashmi!!! I'm sure it's been a long and intense road, but your walk along it has changed it for the better for those that have to travel the same path. Vinay - your spirit and drive are truly noteworthy.

Every Monday I anxiously checked for your update.. and words can't express how happy I am to read this news.

We will be thinking of you and passing along the great news at the Independence Day drive in Portland.

~Sangita and all of "Team Vinay" in Portland =)

God is Great!

When I cam to know of this website a month ago through rediff, I became very sad. My 2 and1/2 year old daughter was diagnosed with leukemia in June - So I know the pain and despair...I am thrilled beyond words to know that you found not just a donor - but a committed one...
I am sure God is with you - and you are going to come out of this a true survivor - Our prayers for a successful transplant, a speedy recovery and ever lasting health.
-A family in the east coast

Congratulations Vinay !

Vinay, This is really great news ! Congratulations ! And good luck !

A volunteer with HelpSameer&Vinay team.

What wonderful news! Know

What wonderful news! Know that we are all praying for the best. Stay strong and keep hoping!

so glad for the good news!

I'm so glad for the good news, and and a big thanks from everybody to the committed donor! It's truly awesome what Team Vinay has accomplished. Of course it's not over yet, by a long shot, but I felt a wave of relief and happiness when I heard:) Good luck Vinay, to you and your family & friends, and best wishes for you to get well soon!

Wonderful News

I first heard about you through my brother Aditya who lives in Boston. We even put up a page on my blog linking into this website.

Vinay, I wish you and your family all the best. God bless.

yay!

hiii guys
we are so excited for this latest development and are confident that we will soon hear an update about you schooling p at (insert any game/sport here)! our thoughts are with you and we hope that you are calm and doing well. my dad always says 'give them hell harry' even when the context doesn't quite fit...so we thought it would be appropriate to say give em hell vinay!
good luck and here's to a speedy recovery :) and then girija aunty will pack an entire wheeler full of columbo garlic bread for you!
kavita, girija aunty, radhakrishnan uncle

Congratulations!

Congratulations Vinay! This is very exciting news. I have been following your case closely for the past 2 months and I was really elated to hear that you found a match. I am very happy for you and Rashmi and I truly wish you guys the very best in your future together. Good luck with the surgery, I am sure you will come out a hero :)

Hi! Vinay and the

Hi! Vinay and the Donor,

Touch wood and Knock wood. God Bless. Best wishes.

Love,

Vasan.

Wonderful...

Dear Vinay,

This is wonderful news. I hope the procedure is safe and wish you a speedy recovery.

Take care.

Great News!

That's awesome news Vinay!!! First the A's sweep the white sox and now this! Good luck through out the transplant. Hope to hear more from you soon. Take care!
Kazuo

Go Vinay!!

Wish you all the best. Your quest has accomplished so much not just for you but for all others who may be in a similar situation years from now. You have been able to mobilize total strangers. These people have identified with your journey and have made a lasting commitment to building awareness of the donor issue in the community.

Congratulations & Best of Luck

This is excellent news.. Best of luck for the procedure.

Congratulations....

There is Shakti in Prayers in Numbers.....We hope to meet you in person some day....and I know that day is not very far now..... Good Luck....Jai Sri Rama.

Wonderful news ! Wish you

Wonderful news ! Wish you all the best.